Self-awareness is one of the constructs of Goleman’s emotional intelligence. As a person, you need to be aware of how your emotions can negatively affect your ability to build strong family relationships, gain the respect of your friends and manage projects effectively.
At home, do you do things that may annoy family members without you noticing it? Do you have an irritating habit that your friends might find offensive? Although you may be able to get away with your lack of self-awareness at home, it can be a career killer in the office.
Don’t assume that everything is hunky-dory. Pay close attention next time. Always check your appearance, attitude and behaviour. Are you aware of your non-verbal behaviours? Do have a boisterous laugh? Do you speak clearly or do you mumble your words? If in doubt, ask a trusted individual.
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